PODCAST EPISODE #6 LESSONS FROM A YEAR OF GROWING GRAY HAIR
“You’re going to look like shit.”
That’s how my formerly favorite French hairdresser responded when I excitedly told him that I was ready to hop on board the silver sister bandwagon and grow my hair out gray.
That was 12 months ago and as I sat in that chair I did two things.
Number #1 – I decided that I would fire this hairdresser and never put up with hairdresser peer pressure again.
Number #2 – I buckled up for a bumpy ride. I had no idea that my decision to grow my hair out gray would be something that would piss people off.
I really didn’t intend to chronicle my experience of growing out my hair gray. But that day was a moment of the “You can’t do this’s and that’s” that we are faced with when we are at midlife and I found it incredibly symbolic. I mean how many times have we heard garbage like we can’t wear sleeveless because of our supposed bat wing arms (in Australia they call it “tuck shop arms” – a barb at the older women who work in school cafeterias). And to address that, I’m sorry but for those of us that have been physically active all our lives, this might not even be a sore point. Or what about that we won’t even want to have sex after a certain age. I’ve had nice orgasms this week, thank you very much!
So this one, where someone told me that I couldn’t go gray finally brought one of those “can’t do this and that’s” home. And so, the journalist in me said “document”.
For the past twelve months I’ve been putting my learnings on YouTube. Here are all the video from start to finish.
#1 Let The Grays Begin
And in the podcast above, I share with you some of the lessons I’ve learned. Like I say in the episode, it’s taking such a long time for this all to unfold that it will probably be another year of documenting before I fully understand exactly what I’ve done.
All I know is that I feel good. I feel pretty. I feel challenged. And all of that is okay.
Oh, and that hairdresser? He doesn’t work there anymore and wherever he is, I wish him well.
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So – back to this week’s podcast – Are you doing the gray hair thing? What lesson can you pass on about it?
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